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What Did You Put on Your Face? Snail Mucin - This website earns commissions on qualifying purchases from posted ads. About four months ago, I mistakenly purchased snail secretion from Korea. I had successfully tried a Korean facial kit and loved it, so I figured I’d try more. I saw a top-rated skin hydration cream and ordered it. As soon as I opened it and looked at the consistency inside. Oh, it certainly looked odd. But I proceeded, got my fingers into it. Then, when I lifted my fingers, I noticed a stream of goo uncontrollably latching onto everything. That’s when I looked at the label, which read, “Snail 92.” Then I looked at the back, which read, “92% snail secretion mucin.” I put my fingers back in the container, wiped some of that extremely gooey snail secretion off, and dabbed a bit on my face. I wasn’t going to waste my money, but I was certainly put off by the idea of putting snail secretion on my face. Still, in the interest of not wasting my money, I continued the ritual: snail cream on my face each night before bed, as part of my slugging routine—now, my literal “slugging” routine. Then, about a month later, I realized my skin looked more radiant, as radiant as when I had a signature facial. It was as if I was receiving a facial every morning. Soon, I was gladly dipping my fingers into that gooey mess—slathering the snail mucin on my face, then my neck, and a bit on my shoulders. I began to wonder where else I could use snail secretion. My hair has always been dry since it’s 4C, and although I have great products, like the SpoiledChild Rapid Recovery Hair Mask, which I’ve written about, I’m always open to new tools for my hair. One day, I decided to put the snail mucin on some of my hair. The next day, I wasn’t disappointed—my hair was highly moisturized and barely oily from the snail mucin. @doctoryoun My HONEST review of the COSRx Advanced Snail 92 All In One Cream. #dryounshonestreviews #snailslime #cosrxsnailmucin ♬ original sound – Doctor Youn I started researching whether people commonly use snail mucin in hair and whether there were products specifically for hair that contain snail mucin. And lo and behold—the same company I bought Snail 92 from has an entire haircare line based on snail secretion. I like this new journey my skin and hair are on, and I’ll keep you all updated on my results. Unlike Dr. Youn in the above TikTok, I give the product a 9.5/10. Have you ever tried snail secretion on your skin or in your hair? If you have or have not, please share your thoughts below!
Ladies, It’s More Than Jet Lag: How Ultra-Long-Haul Travel Impacts Muscle Tone and Hormones - This website earns commissions on qualifying purchases from posted ads. Long-haul flights are often framed as a mere inconvenience, leading to a stiff neck, swollen ankles, or poor sleep. We treat them as something you simply “bounce back from.” But for many travelers, especially women in their late 30s and beyond, long-haul flying can feel harder and harder to recover from. You get home and your body looks different. Softer. Puffier. Muscle tone seems diminished, and your legs feel unfamiliar. You may even wonder if you imagined all these changes. You didn’t. What is important to understand is this: Flying can unmask or accelerate visible changes during hormonally sensitive stages in your life. Flying Is a Physiological Stressor, Not a Neutral Event Ultra-long-haul flights (12–17 hours) place the body in an intense state of stress. Prolonged sitting, low cabin pressure, dehydration, circadian disruption, and a lack of mechanical loading all occur simultaneously. When you sit for that long: Glutes, quads, and calves are largely inactive and fixed in position Muscle protein synthesis (the process of repairing and building muscle) declines Insulin sensitivity in the legs drops significantly Blood and lymph pool in the lower body due to gravity and lack of movement In younger adults, the body often rebounds quickly. However, in women approaching perimenopause, recovery can be slower and sometimes incomplete without deliberate re-loading. This doesn’t mean muscle is permanently lost, but it does mean muscle tone can temporarily decline, making the body appear “softer” even without true fat gain. Why Inflammation Makes the Body Look Bloated Long-haul flights increase inflammatory markers and disrupt lymphatic drainage. As cortisol (the stress hormone) rises, fluid retention increases. The result is often swelling and altered contours, especially in the thighs and hips. Many women interpret this as fat gain, but in reality, it is a combination of inflammation, fluid retention, and temporary loss of muscle tone. These changes can linger for weeks if not actively addressed. Hormonal Context Matters A long-haul flight can reveal perimenopausal changes. Around the late 30s to early 40s, many women enter early perimenopausal physiology. Estrogen becomes less stable, progesterone often declines, and cortisol begins to have a stronger suppressive effect on muscle maintenance. Long flights amplify this environment by: Spiking cortisol levels due to physical and environmental stress Disrupting circadian rhythms, which govern metabolic health Suppressing melatonin, which is vital not just for sleep, but for muscle recovery and insulin sensitivity The above stress-induced manifestations are why some women notice body changes after a single major travel event and feel as though something shifted overnight. Why the Legs Are the First to Change The legs are highly insulin-sensitive, heavily affected by venous pooling, and contain the first muscles to lose tone during prolonged inactivity. Because they are visually prominent, many women report that their legs look “reshaped” or softer. This experience is common and physiologically explainable. What About Men? Men are not immune to these effects; they also experience inflammation and temporary muscle suppression. However, higher baseline testosterone and muscle protein synthesis rates offer more protection. Men are generally less sensitive to circadian disruption at the muscular level. This doesn’t mean men should ignore recovery. It means women in peri- and post-menopause simply need more intentional strategies. The Strategy: Why Breaking Up a Flight Matters Muscle suppression does not happen linearly; it accelerates after prolonged unloading. Two 8-hour flights separated by a stopover are significantly better for the body than one 16-hour nonstop flight. Break Up Your Flights – This Allows For: Restoration of mechanical loading through walking and standing Improved insulin sensitivity in leg muscles Resumption of lymphatic drainage Partial circadian re-alignment Even 48 hours of normal movement can meaningfully restore muscle signaling and reduce persistent tone loss. Optimize Your Environment: Tools to Combat Immobility While consistent movement is paramount, strategic use of travel accessories can significantly reduce the physiological stress of long flights, especially for women. Elevate Your Legs with a Travel Footrest One of the most effective strategies to combat lower body pooling and inflammation is to elevate your legs. This simple act helps counteract the effects of gravity on your circulatory and lymphatic systems. By raising your feet even a few inches, you: Improve venous return: This helps blood flow back to the heart, reducing the likelihood of blood pooling in the ankles and feet. Support lymphatic drainage: Elevated legs assist the lymphatic system in moving fluid out of your lower extremities, reducing swelling and the “puffy” feeling. Reduce pressure on major veins: Less pressure can help maintain better circulation throughout the flight. Consider investing in a portable, inflatable footrest that allows you to create a comfortable, elevated platform for your feet. Even in economy class, this small adjustment can make a significant difference in how your legs feel upon arrival. Invest in Quality Rest: The Inflatable Travel Air Pillow Beyond leg elevation, sleep quality on a long flight is crucial for managing cortisol and supporting recovery. Traditional neck pillows often fall short, leading to awkward sleeping positions and repeated jostling. An inflatable travel air pillow offers a more versatile solution, allowing you to rest your head and arms in various comfortable positions. This prevents you from repeatedly hitting your head on the seat in front of you or the window, promoting deeper, more restorative sleep, which in turn helps regulate hormones and reduce overall stress. The Takeaway At 25, the body rebounds automatically. Around 40, recovery begins to require your active participation. What many experience after a flight is not imagined; it is a convergence of stress, immobility, and the body’s hormonal context. The good news is that these changes are not permanent and are highly responsive to strategy. Your body wasn’t betraying you; it was giving you accurate feedback. Please share your thoughts below.
The Truth About “Ozempic Face” - The term “Ozempic face” entered popular culture almost overnight. The term is used to describe the hollowed cheeks, loose skin, and a prematurely aged appearance some people develop after losing weight rapidly on GLP-1 drugs. The implication is that Ozempic itself somehow causes facial aging. That assumption is wrong. What people are seeing has less to do with the chemical makeup of Ozempic and almost everything to do with what happens to the human body during prolonged nutrient deprivation. Trainers, nutritionists, and medical professionals recognized this immediately—not because they have extensive knowledge about Ozempic, but because they know what the effects of extreme dieting look like. Starvation Leaves a Visible Signature Ozempic works by suppressing appetite and slowing digestion. For people who have struggled for years with food noise, overeating, or metabolic dysfunction, that suppression can feel like relief. LLAFIT acknowledges that reality without judgment. Relief matters. But relief from hunger does not automatically translate into adequate nourishment; that distinction is where the “Ozempic face” problem begins. When food intake drops sharply and remains low, the body doesn’t selectively burn fat from your problem areas. Essential fat stores that support the face, hormones, and cellular health are salvaged for energy where calories are absent. When protein intake falls below what is required to maintain lean mass, muscle tissue is broken down. Collagen production suffers, making the skin less supple. And with a declined micronutrient intake, your hair thins, your mood shifts, and body functions are impacted. The scale moves down, but so does overall body quality. Muscle density, strength, and skin tightness decrease. You might obtain a smaller body, but not a hard body. This is why rapid weight loss, drug-assisted or not, so often produces a look that appears unhealthy, even when the number on the scale is celebrated. In contrast, weight loss achieved through training and mindful nutrition tells a different story. Training your muscles improves overall body shape, firmness, and metabolic resilience. It protects posture and movement. It supports the skin from underneath rather than stretching it thin. A body that has been trained retains strength and function, even when body fat is reduced. The result isn’t only a smaller frame, but a stronger, healthier body. This knowledge is why experienced trainers are not confounded by the cause of what is called Ozempic face or Ozempic butt, which translate to gaunt faces and under-exercised glutes. Those side effects are not new. They are what happens when weight loss occurs without adequate mechanical loading, protein intake, and nutrient sufficiency. It is the same pattern that appears with starvation diets, liquid fasts, and extreme calorie restriction. The method has changed, physiology has not changed. Trainers Aren’t “Anti-Ozempic”; They Understand Human Biology When figures such as Jillian Michaels speak critically about widespread Ozempic use, it is often misinterpreted as moral judgment. That framing misses the point. Her stated concerns are about sustainability and biological cost. People like Jillian, who have time-tested, applied experience in human performance, understand something that is easy to ignore in the rush for fast results: exercise plays a multidimensional role in overall health. Exercise is not just a tool for fat loss, it preserves and strengthens important body tissue, such as muscle, which any competent trainer treats like the diamonds of the human body. The last thing you should ever want to do is deplete the diamonds of your body, and like diamonds, muscles require pressure (exercise) to be built; this is also the reason they should not be neglected once hard-earned. Benefits of Muscle Retention Muscle loss accelerates aging and compromises strength, balance, and metabolic health. Muscle is a primary regulator of glucose disposal and insulin sensitivity. Muscle loss directly impairs insulin regulation, increasing the risk of Type II diabetes. Less muscle makes future weight maintenance harder, not easier—and metabolically, it leaves the body less capable of handling carbohydrates at all. Ozempic is prescribed to diabetics because their metabolic health is already compromised enough to justify pharmaceutical intervention and risks. This is where the Ozempic conversation becomes uncomfortable but necessary. When muscle loss is accepted or ignored in the pursuit of weight loss for appearance, it pushes individuals toward the very disease Ozempic is meant to manage. That dichotomy illustrates just how serious the underlying metabolic risk already is. Once muscle is lost, it is far more difficult to rebuild later, especially as we age. The Ozempic Sustainability Problem Ozempic is rarely a one-time intervention. For most users, it requires ongoing injections or pills, ongoing expense, and long-term tolerance of side effects that can meaningfully reduce quality of life. Supply disruptions, rising costs, and cumulative risks make it an unsustainable solution for many people who do not medically require it. When the drug is discontinued, the body often rebounds unless a foundation of strength, movement, and nourishment was preserved all along. This is where the disconnect between public perception and expertise becomes most visible. Trainers see patterns repeat. The public sees transformation photos and assumes progress. One group recognizes a familiar train wreck approaching. The other sees a miracle. Most people do not want caution when relief from a long-standing goal is finally within reach, and many will only learn through experience rather than by listening to those who have already observed the outcome dozens of times before. But the irony is that listening to those with applied knowledge (i.e., trainers, medical professional, nutritionists) is the real shortcut—the one that produces results that last. Consider the sustainability of the following: Lifelong injections or pills Ongoing cost Gastrointestinal side effects Unknown long-term risks Supply shortages For many, Ozempic becomes a luxury they can’t maintain, not a medical necessity they can sustain. And when they cease taking the drug for reasons related to its unsustainability, the body reverts unless muscle mass, movement habits, and nutritional foundations were protected along the way. LLAFIT’s Position LLAFIT understands that Ozempic can be helpful for certain individuals battling severe metabolic dysfunction or lifelong food noise. But for anyone who values longevity, strength, youthful tissue, functional health, and sustainable results, starvation-based weight loss can be a dangerous trade-off. Ozempic isn’t inherently a bad choice to help control hyper-appetite or food noise. For some individuals, under careful medical oversight, it can be a useful tool. But for anyone who values strength, longevity, tissue health, and true anti-aging, starvation-based weight loss is a dangerous trade. The goal is not simply to take up less space, it’s about the quality of the space you take up. At the root of Ozempic face—and the growing list of negative body composition and skin-related side effects—is a lack of emphasis on strength, nourishment, function, and longevity when it comes to fat loss. Please, share your thoughts below.
Sample 5-Day Split Training for Longevity, Strength & Recovery - Your body is a reflection of your daily habits, and if you’re aiming for transformation, training just a few days per week isn’t enough. While the often-prescribed three-days-per-week training recommendation might be a gentle starting point for beginners, real results in fat loss, muscle building, or skill development require consistent exposure to stimuli. These goals require typically four or more days of focused training per week. That’s the minimum your body needs to adapt, grow, and truly level up. Split Training for Maximal Results, Recovery, and Longevity Split training is a time-tested, intelligent solution for reaching fitness goals and ensuring you reach a sufficient activity level each week. The ultimate goal is maximum results and long-term health. Instead of taxing your body every session with a full-body workout, split routines enable you to target specific muscle groups or performance goals on separate days. The result? You can train more often without burning out, giving each muscle group the chance to recover, grow, and come back stronger for future training. Split training also supports variety and structure, two things that can help you to stick to a regimen and build a habit. When properly designed, a split routine offers the frequency needed for progress, while also protecting against overtraining by respecting your body’s recovery needs. In this post, you’ll learn how to design a balanced 5-day split that builds strength, mobility, flexibility, and cardiovascular endurance, using a real-world example of a routine built for long-term health and fitness. Split routines offer several advantages over full-body workouts when it comes to recovery and long-term implementation: Focused intensity: You can give more effort to fewer muscle groups per session. Recovery built-in: Alternating training zones (e.g., legs vs. upper body vs. mobility) allows for systemic recovery. Neurological adaptation: Practicing skill-focused movements after low-intensity or off days, when your nervous system is recovered, improves learning and control. Volume management: You can train at higher weekly volumes while spreading the load. Daily Movement Goal 10,000 steps/day on training and non-training days. Walking, a low-impact aerobic activity ensures you’re moving daily without interfering with recovery from your other more intense weekly workouts. Sample Weekly Routine Overview Below is a sample weekly training routine aimed at building and retaining strength through calisthenics and weight training, alongside flexibility and mobility movements for healthy whole-body movement, long-term performance, and injury prevention. Sunday – Skill Day I Focus: Core activation + Handstand work Style: Controlled calisthenics, isometrics, balance holds Goal: Train proprioception, coordination, and midline control Length: 45–60 minutes (5-7 min warm-up; 40-min workout; 15-min cool-down and stretch) Monday – Active Recovery (OFF) Low-intensity movement Goal of 10,000 steps Tuesday – Upper Body Strength Day Focus: 80% calisthenics (pull-ups, dips, push-ups, levers) Supplement: 20% weights (rows, shoulder press, accessory lifts) Intensity: Moderate-high effort (RPE 7–8), 4–6 sets/move Goal: Maintain or build strength while preserving joint health Length: 45–60 minutes (5-7 min warm-up; 40-min workout; 15-min cool-down and stretch) Wednesday – Glute Focus Day Focus: Glute bridges, banded hip thrusts, split squats, RDLs Optional: Plyometric work (if recovery allows) Goal: Strengthen posterior chain for hip health, sprinting power, posture Length: 45–60 minutes (5-7 min warm-up; 40-min workout; 15-min cool-down and stretch) Thursday – Skill Day II: Gymnastic Strength + Flexibility Focus: Muscle-up and pull-up progression, core exercises, pancake stretch, active splits Blended with mobility drills and static holds Goal: Restore movement quality and deepen strength-through-range Length: 45–60 minutes (5-7 min warm-up; 40-min workout; 15-min cool-down and stretch) Friday – Active Recovery (OFF) Walk, stretch, light foam rolling Goal of 10,000 steps Saturday – Leg Day Focus: 80% strength work (squats, lunges, deadlifts) Add: 10% mobility (Cossack squats, hip openers) + 10% flexibility (hamstring/glute stretches) Goal: Maintain leg power, tissue quality, and functional strength Length: 45–60 minutes (5-7 min warm-up; 40-min workout; 15-min cool-down and stretch) How to Prevent Overtraining with a 5-Day Split Split routines can still lead to overtraining if not programmed smartly. Here are ways to keep recovery aligned with your training load: Alternate CNS demand: Don’t stack your most neurologically demanding sessions back to back. This is why Skill Days are separated and legs come last in the week. Include restorative work: Flexibility, mobility, and active rest days aren’t optional. They’re your longevity insurance. Cycle intensity: Not every week needs to be maximum output. Use RPE (rate of perceived exertion) to guide volume. Sleep and steps: Low-intensity steps and proper sleep do more for recovery than most supplements. Final Thoughts A 5-day split can be an effective training schedule if designed with intention—not just muscle group targeting, but also neurological freshness, movement variability, and built-in recovery. Whether you’re training for performance, posture, or long-term vitality, this kind of program will help you train smart, stay strong, and stay in motion for decades in the future. Want to learn how to personalize this split for your needs or cycle intensity through the seasons? Reach out via the LLAFIT contact form, or drop a comment below. 
I Tried SpoiledChild’s Liquid Collagen - LLAFIT is not affiliated with or sponsored by SpoiledChild. This is not a paid review. As with SpoiledChild’s S24 Rapid Recovery Hair Mask, which I’ve previously reviewed, I gave in to trying the brand’s Extra Strength Liquid Collagen or E27 after seeing what seemed like hundreds of gimmicky social media ads. The claims in the advertisements felt exaggerated; for example, I don’t believe a collagen supplement can cause the dramatic weight loss shown in some of their ads. That said, my experience with SpoiledChild’s hair mask genuinely surprised me after my first use, and I soon subscribed to the product. My son and I both see and feel exceptional improvements in our hair. It was that experience that suspended my skepticism of their heavy marketing tactics and led me to consider their other products. So, after weeks of seeing ridiculous claims in SpoiledChild’s collagen ads, I finally clicked through and made a purchase. Why Supplement With Collagen? Collagen plays a major role in skin elasticity, joint health, hair strength, and nail growth. It’s a structural protein that naturally declines as we age, which is why supplementation can be helpful. Of course, you can also ingest collagen naturally. For example, in many Asian cultures, collagen-rich foods—such as bone broths, fish skin, and slow-simmered soups—are a regular part of the daily diet, long before collagen powders and liquids became a wellness trend in the West. Knowing the benefits of collagen, I’ve taken a daily collagen supplement for years. With my previous collagen supplement, the most noticeable benefit was stronger nails, and that alone made it worth continuing. However, my results from that brand were fairly limited beyond stronger nails. The Results After trying SpoiledChild’s Extra Strength Liquid Collagen, I was pleasantly surprised to experience clear additional benefits. First, my skin feels noticeably softer to the touch and looks visibly smoother and radiant. This wasn’t something I had experienced with my previous collagen supplement. Second, my nails are even stronger and longer than before, which I didn’t think was possible given how fortified they already were when using my old collagen supplement. But the best benefit of all: My hair is growing at a faster rate than it was previously. That alone was enough to convince me. Because of these results, I’ve officially switched. I no longer subscribe to my old collagen brand, and I’ve added SpoiledChild’s Extra Strength Liquid Collagen to my existing SpoiledChild subscription box. Mango is my preferred flavor. Final Thoughts I don’t know what kind of magic they have going on at SpoiledChild’s product lab, but based on my experiences so far, they produce exceptionally effective products. Have you tried any SpoiledChild products? If so, leave a comment below. LLAFIT encourages sharing your experiences with other web site visitors.
What is Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) and Can It Help You? - Disclaimer: This article is for informational and educational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice. Hormone therapy should only be pursued under the guidance of a licensed healthcare provider. LLAFIT.com does not provide medical services and is not liable for decisions made based on the information in this article. Here’s the scenario: You’re a woman pushing 40 or already over 40. You’re training hard, eating clean, doing everything you have always done to stay fit. Yet suddenly your body feels different. Muscle is harder to maintain, fat is creeping up around your hips and stomach, and cellulite is appearing out of nowhere. The list goes on, growing each year or even each month. What has changed? You are training just as hard and frequently, and eating the way you always have. The sudden changes in your body might be completely out of your control; they certainly feel that way. What you are experiencing could be hormonal changes that come with age and intensify as you approach perimenopause and eventually menopause. Your body is preparing the shutdown sequence—the long fizzling out of estrogen and testosterone production that was previously at levels that managed so many functions of your body: keeping your skin thick, supple, and tight; your energy levels elevated; and your muscles strong and more responsive to strength training. Your body’s sudden resistance to respond to your efforts, and other abnormal changes in your composition and mood, could all be signs of hormonal imbalance—specifically, declining testosterone, estrogen, or progesterone, which most commonly occurs during perimenopause or after menopause. A Brief History And Misconceptions About HRT for Women HRT for women has existed for decades, but in 2002 the Women’s Health Initiative (WHI) study sparked widespread fear after reporting an increased risk of breast cancer and heart disease following the therapy. What the media failed to clarify was that the study used synthetic hormones, not bioidentical ones, and that most participants were over 60 years old and starting HRT well after menopause. Since then, newer research has refined our understanding of the risks and benefits of HRT, showing that for most women under 60, or those who begin therapy within 10 years of menopause, HRT can be both safe and beneficial. Unfortunately, the fear generated from that study still lingers today, causing many women to avoid treatment—or worse, to be guided toward underdosed, outdated solutions that don’t reflect modern science or the needs of active, health-conscious women. Common Signs You Might Have Low Estrogen or Low Testosterone Signs of Low Estrogen Signs of Low Testosterone Irregular periods or missing periods Low motivation or mental fatigue Night sweats, hot flashes Difficulty building or retaining muscle Dry skin or vaginal dryness Weakness or decreased strength Mood swings, irritability Poor recovery after workouts Poor sleep or waking at 3 a.m. Depressed or “flat” mood Sagging skin, thinner hair Increased body fat despite same diet/exercise Increased fat storage (especially hips, stomach, arms) Low sex drive Why Hormone Replacement Therapy Can Help Hormone Replacement Therapy is about more than “fixing hot flashes.” It can help restore the anabolic environment your body needs to thrive, particularly if you’re a physically active woman who cares about muscle preservation, body composition, and long-term health. Did You Know: Perimenopause can occur between ages 35–50; the average age is 45. HRT can have a profound impact on how a woman feels and performs. It can help improve muscle tone and overall physical performance, while also boosting energy, focus, and sleep quality. Many women find that it helps restore libido and stabilize mood, bringing back a sense of vitality that had slowly faded. Beyond these benefits, HRT also supports bone density and joint health, which helps to preserve strength and mobility over time. It can improve skin elasticity and reduce unwanted fat accumulation, while delaying visible signs of aging by maintaining collagen production and supporting metabolic health. What Are the Risks of HRT? All medical interventions have risks, but with the right provider and proper monitoring, HRT-related risks can be minimized. Possible risks include: Slight increase in breast cancer risk (mainly with combined estrogen + synthetic progestin — less with bioidentical forms) Blood clots or stroke, especially with oral estrogen (transdermal is safer) Fluid retention, bloating, or mood swings if improperly dosed Overuse or unsupervised testosterone can cause side effects like hair growth or voice deepening (rare with medical guidance) Risk Reduction Tips To minimize risks and get the most out of hormone replacement therapy, it’s important to follow a few key principles. Using transdermal estrogen, such as a patch or gel, is generally considered safer than oral forms, especially for women concerned about clotting risks. It’s also wise to opt for bioidentical hormones, like estradiol and micronized progesterone, which are structurally identical to what the body naturally produces. Regular bloodwork every three to six months is essential for monitoring your hormone levels and adjusting dosages if needed. Just as crucial is working with a provider who truly understands female physiology and recognizes the unique needs of active women. Avoid any clinic that pushes cookie-cutter regimens without personalized testing, those programs often miss the mark. When it comes to choosing an HRT delivery method, not all options are created equal. Some women gravitate toward convenience, but effectiveness and safety should always be the priority. HRT Delivery Options – What Works Best? 1. Pellets (Subdermal) Pros: Long-lasting (3–5 months); no daily task Cons: Can be overdosed, hard to adjust once inserted; expensive; few practitioners monitor closely Verdict: May work for some, but lack of dosage flexibility is a drawback 2. Injections Pros: Precise dosing; easy to titrate; high absorption Cons: Requires comfort with needles or clinic visits Verdict: Best for women who train seriously and want reliable, controllable dosing — especially for testosterone 3. Oral (Pills) Some forms of progesterone are best taken orally (e.g., micronized progesterone at night for sleep) Oral estrogen has higher clot risk vs. transdermal 4. Creams Pros: Painless, easy to apply Cons: Hard to dose precisely; can rub off on others or pets; absorbs variably based on activity/sweat Verdict: Not ideal for active women who train or shower multiple times a day How to Find an HRT Practitioner (Without Getting Ripped Off) Here’s where many women run into trouble: HRT is big business, and some providers care more about revenue than results. Here’s what to look for and what to avoid: What to Look For in a Provider Medical professionals (MD, DO, NP) with experience in hormonal optimization for women A clinic that includes baseline bloodwork before prescribing anything Ongoing testing and follow-ups (at least every 3–6 months) Willingness to personalize dosing and delivery method based on your goals + labs Transparent pricing and realistic results What to be Wary of from a Provider Be wary of “wellness” clinics or spas that aggressively market one-size-fits-all hormone creams, especially when paired with beauty services rather than medical oversight. Avoid overpriced treatment packages that bundle in skincare products or unrelated upsells. Be cautious of clinics that only offer pellet therapy without flexible dosage adjustment, as well as practitioners who downplay side effects or refuse to conduct regular lab monitoring. Lastly, steer clear of providers who rely on outdated protocols while charging premium prices, these providers often prioritize profit over personalized care. Some of the highest prices come from clinics that offer a bunch of unrelated “self-care” services (facials, IV drips, etc.) and HRT is just a side hustle. Don’t fall for the packaging. Ask about dosing philosophy, monitoring frequency, and treatment flexibility. Summary of provider red flags: “Wellness” spas or clinics that push one-size-fits-all hormone creams Overpriced “packages” bundled with skincare or unnecessary upsells Do not accept insurance Clinics offering pellets only, with no dose adjustment options Practitioners who downplay side effects or refuse regular lab monitoring Providers using old protocols (i.e., cream-only administration) but charging luxury pricing Final Word If your body is changing in ways that don’t match your effort—it might be your hormones. HRT isn’t about “fixing aging,” it’s about supporting your biology, performance, and longevity in a targeted, intelligent way. And for active, performance-driven women, not all HRT is created equal. You deserve more than outdated creams or cookie-cutter solutions. If you are experiencing two or more of the symptoms listed in the introduction of this post, it might be worth your while to research a provider in your area to connect with and have your hormone levels tested. If you find that you in fact have decline estrogen or testosterone, you might be delighted at the results you can gain from hormone replacement therapy. 
Lead Has Been Found in Common Protein Powders: What Now? - This website earns commissions on qualifying purchases from posted ads. Affiliate links are in this post. I have used protein powder for workout recovery (intra- and post-workout) for more than twenty years. For most of that time, my go-to brand was Optimum Nutrition Gold Standard Whey. A few years ago, I switched to Naked Nutrition to get away from the artificial sweeteners found in many popular protein powders. Naked’s promise sounded ideal: non-GMO, pasture-fed cows, soy-free, premium ingredients, and their slogan, “Only three premium ingredients with nothing to hide.” Given all that, I was surprised to see Naked Nutrition ranked among the highest for lead content in protein powders in a recent Consumer Reports 2025 study. Not far behind was my former favorite, Optimum Nutrition Gold Standard Whey. It feels like it’s getting harder to find truly clean food and supplements that are safe to use every day, especially for those of us who take fitness and recovery seriously. What the Study Found About Lead in Protein Powders Consumer Reports tested 23 popular protein powders and shakes and found that more than two-thirds contained more lead per serving than experts consider safe to consume in one day. Plant-based protein powders had the highest tested levels, averaging nine times more lead than dairy-based powders. Still, half of the whey and dairy options tested contained enough lead for experts to advise against daily use. Per the Consumer Reports study, the worst results came from Naked Nutrition Vegan Mass Gainer, which contained about 1,570 percent of the safety limit for lead. Other brands that ranked high in lead levels included Huel Black Edition, Garden of Life, and Momentous Plant Protein. Even well-known names like Quest, Orgain, Muscle Milk, and Optimum Nutrition Serious Mass showed measurable amounts of lead, cadmium, or arsenic. Cumulative exposure is the primary danger. While one scoop won’t hurt you, lead builds up in the body over time. Long-term exposure has been linked to kidney damage, high blood pressure, and reproductive issues. Doctors agree that the ideal level of lead exposure is zero. Because most of us use these products daily, risks can quietly grow over time. How Lead Ends Up in Protein Powders According to Consumer Reports and other nutrition researchers, heavy metals like lead often come from the soil where plants are grown or from equipment used in supplement manufacturing. Unfortunately, the FDA does not regulate supplements the same way it regulates food or medicine, so there are currently no strict limits for heavy metals in protein powders. This lack of oversight allows companies to market “clean” or “natural” products without proving they’re free from contaminants. What Consumer Reports Recommends Consumer Reports suggests that most people don’t need to use protein powder every day, since the average person already gets enough protein from food. For those who use supplements regularly or to kick-start recovery intra- and post-workout, here’s what they recommend based on their findings: Avoid the products that tested highest for lead in their study. Choose lower-lead options such as Transparent Labs Mass Gainer, Momentous Whey Isolate, and Dymatize Super Mass Gainer, which tested below daily safety limits. Cycle your supplements by taking breaks or rotating brands to reduce long-term exposure. Get protein from whole foods like eggs, fish, chicken, beans, and Greek yogurt when possible. Why Staying Informed Matters After more than twenty years of using protein powders and sadly learning the results of the Consumer Reports study, I’m reminded that lifelong fitness is about staying educated and adaptable. Having years of experience or great results doesn’t mean we know everything. Science is always changing, and new studies are always being conducted to help us better understand what we can do to stay in the best of health. This post is meant to raise awareness for people who care about lifelong health and fitness. Whether your goal is muscle recovery, better energy, or maintaining strength as you age, staying informed is part of the process. Just because a product works or has great reviews–or a reassuring slogan–that doesn’t mean it’s completely safe. Science changes, and so does manufacturing. New studies continue to reveal how even trusted brands can contain harmful substances that are not disclosed on packaging. If you’ve changed your supplement routine, found a cleaner protein powder, or started relying more on whole foods, I’d love to hear your experience. Share your thoughts in the comments below.
Success & Relationships: Deciphering Reconnaissance from Genuine Interest - This post was originally published on one of my sister websites, and has been reposted here under a different title. Reconnaissance is a favorite tool of armchair critics and gossips. If you’re someone who consistently pursues your dreams, you’ll inevitably attract individuals who aim to slow you down or stain your reputation. These people are often armchair critics and gossips. Initially, these people might seem harmless, like when bits of information from conversations you have had with them seem to “slip out” when they are speaking with others. But this often progresses to more concerning tactics, like when they strategically introduce private information about you in front of others, forcing you to address topics you’d prefer to keep confidential or discuss on your own terms. This can escalate further to them spreading rumors—twisting information they know about you with added spice for entertainment, all to control your narrative. And they accomplish this without even having to get up from their armchair. These people can develop into being more than just an irritant; they’re like a persistent fly, constantly buzzing around for information. Get too close or share too much, and you could find yourself in a vulnerable position. This is particularly true if these individuals are family members, a group many of us find difficult to distance ourselves from, even when recognizing harmful patterns. But plenty of these individuals will be outside of your family and in the workplace, which is another environment where you have to tolerate and navigate around them. Therefore, to handle the nuisance of this type of person and the potential danger they can (and likely desire to) bring to your life, you must know the difference between their reconnaissance efforts and genuine interest in your pursuits. Why Do They Perform Reconnaissance? Control is what they seek. Control of your narrative and, their most fervent wish, control over you—specifically over your success: to prevent it or to bring an end to it. In pursuit of this control, they perform reconnaissance to gather information about you so they can twist it negatively and damage your reputation. Information gathering is just the beginning of their scheme and your first signal that their game has begun. Their Deception These people may think they are clever or unique, but the proverbial “bottom” is replete with individuals like them. They are all repetitions of the same person you will encounter throughout your life—a dime a dozen, and easily recognizable once you know what to look for. Read on. How to Deal with a Jealous or Insecure Person | Stephanie Lyn Coaching How Do They Perform Reconnaissance? These individuals often feign interest in your pursuits. You must be wary of how much information you share, as any detail, no matter how innocuous, can be twisted negatively. A common tactic is “bearing gifts,” offering something seemingly helpful to elicit personal information. What Do These People Look Like? I used to think there was a specific gender that was more prone to this kind of behavior. Take a wild guess. Now, I’m a member of the gender you have probably guessed, so don’t accuse me of sexism. Instead, just understand that I was assigned to some level of being encased within the culture of this type of behavior. Now, I actively avoid it; adjusting as needed with each person that I encounter, keeping my goals and personal life private. But, gender assumptions aside, over the decades, I’ve found that you can spot these people more by social class than by gender. As you reach a certain status or stage in your life, you’ve worked so much and have more you’d like to protect. You learn to keep your cards closer to your chest, and so have the others in your circle. You tend to only share information about a business partner or a neighbor when you can potentially help each other out in the long run to make more progress. It’s because of individuals who are strategic about controlling the details of their lives and preserving their success that we have libel laws and other impartial avenues of resolution—or, retribution, if you so wish. And in my worst case of dealing with someone who used reconnaissance to try to bring great harm to me, I had to pursue legal action, a recourse I’m thankful exists. How foolish must one be to voluntarily create an enemy out of an already highly motivated, resourceful person? Smart people know better than to let their pangs of envy, competitiveness, and insecurity dictate their actions; thus, they can better keep their lives intact, rather than invite an unpredictable response from a target who was otherwise minding their own business. This is a lesson many successful people understand, enabling them to avoid the folly of yielding to primal impulses. Learning to pick your battles is part of maturing, but some never learn. On the path to success (and staying out of unnecessary trouble), the most successful are wise to keep out of other people’s business, especially private matters that don’t personally involve them. Conversely, those who make it their life’s work to speak ill of others are, in fact, inviting consequences into their lives. They’re often so caught up in the dizzying ecstasy of gossip they indulge in that they fail to recognize the potential danger they’re creating for themselves. Their Ultimate Goal Gossips and armchair critics seek unearned power, influence, and a sense of fulfillment—not through their own work, of course, but by finding faults in others, and in return they perceive themselves as having a more elevated status. Ultimately, they want control over those they consider threats. They aim to draw you into their “circle of misery” by establishing a personal relationship with you. If they can’t do that, they seek control by manipulating the narrative about their target. This is why you must be wary of sharing any information with them; as mentioned, even innocuous details will be twisted to make the information seem negative. This gives them control over the narrative about you and what you’re doing. Gossip makes the powerless feel powerful. Any bit of information they obtain about you that they can twist negatively gives them a sense of power. They do their best to abuse that “power” by spreading gossip about you as far and wide as they can, targeting where they believe it will hurt you most. They may spread this gossip to a close friend, relative, spouse, or even your children. They Create a Powerful Enemy Imagine becoming the justified target of someone you perceive as a threat, all because you could not resist jumping on the gossip or smear-campaign bandwagon against them. The more they expose their insecurities through insults and projections, the more they widen the attack surface you can use against them. When you target a self-motivated, resourceful person, you ultimately create a powerful enemy. This enemy will be highly motivated to ensure you can never attempt to harm them again. While the gossip or armchair critic might be driven solely by their insecurity, and all they have are rumors and assumptions to build their case against you, you possess the facts about all their tactics. And, if you’ve followed the advice in this article, you’ve given them nothing substantial to truly harm you. Depending on what the armchair critic or gossip does to try and control an aspect of your life or harm you, there’s often a real-world consequence you can deliver. Use resourcefulness and facts. Facts often nail armchair critics and gossips in their coffins. See Robert Greene’s Law 4: Always Say Less Than Necessary in the 48 Laws of Power (affiliate link). Conclusion After completing a recent major project (and sharing the accomplishment with some people I probably shouldn’t have), I experienced a fresh influx of armchair critics and gossips buzzing around me. Thankfully, I’m well versed in all their tactics, having recently distanced myself from my natal family, which is populated by such people. The mistake these people make in believing that they are evil geniuses of information gathering and rumor-mongering is that, by sitting in their armchairs pointing fingers at others, they remain ignorant of the world of productive people. If they understood, they would know that their personalities and tactics are pervasive throughout society and often serve as motivation for those who pursue their dreams—to achieve freedom from such limited individuals. Having people like this constantly around you, buzzing for information, is a sign that you’re doing something right. Yes, it’s still incredibly annoying, and you must constantly dodge the potential danger these people want to bring, but if you recognize their movements, you’ll remain in control of your narrative and your life. Once you recognize the patterns of armchair critics and gossips, the next time you encounter one, you’ll find yourself thinking, “here we go again.” Simply act accordingly to avoid their lazy traps. You can defeat yourself through self-exposure more effectively than they can defeat you through genuine effort, so don’t fall into their traps. Remember, their goal is to remain seated while they pick you apart. So stay sharp when it comes to their attempts to gain reconnaissance on you.
NEW PODCAST EPISODE! Restoring Vitality: Functional Medicine & Healing with Martin Pytela - Welcome back to the podcast. In this episode, I speak with Martin Pytela, a functional medicine expert and metabolic typing coach whose mission is to “Restore Vitality to You and the Planet.” With over 12,000 clients coached and more than 60,000 students enrolled in his online courses, Martin shares his unique approach to healing, which blends physical health, emotional wellness, and spiritual insight. In our conversation, Martin discusses his personal health journey and how it led him to explore alternative approaches to healing. We cover a wide range of topics, including trauma recovery, stress and anxiety management, gut health, metabolism, and the connection between mindset and physical well-being. He also explains the principles behind metabolic typing and why individualized nutrition matters for long-term vitality. If you’re curious about holistic wellness and how functional medicine can support lifelong health, this episode offers plenty of insights and actionable takeaways. Connect with MartinMartin’s Podcast: https://www.life-enthusiast.com/articles/category/podcasts/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/LifeEnthusiastContactInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifeenthusiast15/X: https://x.com/lifentcoYouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/lifentco Disclaimer:The views and opinions expressed by our podcast guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the podcast or its hosts. We are not responsible for any statements made by guests. We encourage listeners to critically assess all information and, based on their own knowledge, experiences, and resources, make informed decisions about whether or not to adopt any ideas discussed.
NEW PODCAST EPISODE! Rethinking Health: A Conversation with Dr. Tom Cowan - Welcome back to the podcast. In this episode, I have a conversation with Dr. Thomas Cowan, a widely known alternative medicine doctor, speaker, and best-selling author of six books, including Human Heart, Cosmic Heart, Cancer and the New Biology of Water, and The Contagion Myth. With a background in both conventional and holistic medicine, Dr. Cowan offers a common-sense, deeply informed perspective on health, rooted in decades of practice, study, and lived experience. Dr. Cowan is a founding board member and current vice president of the Weston A. Price Foundation, and he advocates for whole-body wellness, regenerative agriculture, and restoring our connection to natural health. In our conversation, Dr. Cowan shares his thoughts on conventional medicine and beliefs, along with suggestions for sustainable nutrition and fitness. 
NEW PODCAST EPISODE! Sarah Malone – Recognize. Release. Recover: A Guide to Freedom from Narcissistic Abuse - In this episode, I’m joined by Sarah Malone, owner of Spark: The Secret Place—a holistic healing collective dedicated to helping you overcome emotional, relational, and spiritual blocks. Sarah also appeared on TLC’s 90 Day: The Last Resort, where she helped couples navigate relationship challenges.The focus of this episode is on identifying the signs of narcissistic abuse, what steps to take to gain freedom, and the resources available to get help. Narcissistic relationships can follow us throughout our lives if we don’t recognize the signs and break the cycle. More on Sarah Malone:As a clinical hypnotherapist and spiritual teacher, Sarah uniquely blends therapy with spirituality in a refreshingly straightforward way. She gained recognition as a holistic therapist on a reality TV show and is the author of Affirmations for a Peaceful Life. Featured in P.O.W.E.R. magazine and Yahoo Finance, she also hosts her own podcast, Ignite the Spark Within. Known as “The Real Deal” in the healing community, Sarah leads transformational retreats and workshops, striving to bring more of heaven to earth.Connect w/ Sarah:Sarah’s Website: https://www.sparkflc.com/Sarah’s Retreats: https://www.sparkflc.com/retreatInstagram: @sarah_sparkmalone
Wellness Travel: How England’s Running Culture Inspired My Return to Morning Cardio - I recently returned from a tour of England, which concluded in Edinburgh, Scotland. I visited because English culture has, in some ways, influenced my life, mainly financially. As a parent, I was inspired to set up a trust fund for generational wealth after watching countless English period dramas that revolved around inheritance. I particularly enjoyed the stories that weren’t centered around families warring over who would inherit; instead, the story was about a kind aunt, family friend, or business partner who thoughtfully bequeathed wealth to benefit the future of a group, company, or town. Little Dorrit and North and South come to mind. But when I actually visited England, what influenced me most—and something I could not have predicted—was the running culture. A Running Culture That Shows Up Now, America has a running culture, too. But I saw key differences in the runners I observed while in England: Running wasn’t a niche activity confined to major metro areas like in America; it was everywhere in nine cities and towns I visited on my way from London to Edinburgh. People ran at all hours—early morning, mid-day, late night. Runners were often in pairs or small groups, yet solo runners were common too. The age range was wide—from young adults to seniors. I was struck by how normalized it was. From London to Bath, to the cobblestone paths of York and Edinburgh, people were out running. And they weren’t wearing the latest high-performance gear either. Some were in simple joggers, hoodies, or even casual clothes—more focused on movement than image. I’ve since learned that my observations, align with the UK’s emphasis on community-based running initiatives. For instance, Parkrun, a free weekly 5k event, has become a significant part of British running culture, promoting inclusivity and attracting participants of all ages and abilities My Running History It has been over sixteen years since I’ve had a steady morning running schedule. Back when I focused on bodybuilding (2005–2011), I followed a 6–7-day/week double-split training schedule: cardio in the morning and strength training in the evening on a split routine. Since I changed my routine to focus on skill and longevity—incorporating calisthenic and gymnastic strength, mobility, and flexibility—the double-split training fell away in favor of just a once-per-day, split schedule, five days per week. As far as morning cardio went, prioritizing sleep, different work schedules, and pursuing goals outside of the gym became my focus. Time felt too short to get up earlier for a quick HIIT sprinting session or a jog. But over the years, my body has been changing, and I know reincorporating a double-split schedule can give me that edge I need to get my body where I prefer it. Still, I had not been able to stop myself from hitting the snooze button every time I tried to reincorporate a morning run. Travel as Inspiration Prior to visiting England, I had been trying to find a way to convince myself to start running in the morning again. But travel can really provide inspiration to make changes in your life. Each day, I walked through cities like York, established around 71 AD, which is still thriving with people on the streets day and night. I was in ancient towns with strong clubbing cultures. Centuries-old buildings and castles were the backdrop of people, young and old, living out their modern lives. I could not help but think about the endurance of the people and their culture, and that translated to a new understanding of perseverance: I have to persevere, too. If I want to still thrive on into the future and not simply let my body age and change in ways that have been bothering me for years, the least I can do is persevere: get out of bed in the morning and hit the pavement. Run. Take care of myself. Thrive for as long as I can and be my own legacy. So after 16 years of hitting the snooze button, I have so far woken up every day to run or at least walk in the morning five days per week. As an added benefit, I’ve found myself feeling sleepy at a decent hour instead of staying up till 12 AM most nights, as I had for the past year. Now, with my physical activity and daylight exposure balanced, I sleep and wake earlier so I can maintain a morning cardio schedule. I happy to experience the changing of the seasons again while moving through nature—something I really missed after my workouts moved primarily indoors 16 years ago when I stopped doing morning cardio. Thank you, England—and Scotland—for re-inspiring me to get out of bed and take up running again; an unexpected but welcoming takeaway from my brief trip abroad. Interested in Wellness Travel? LLAFIT offers wellness travel tours and custom getaways. To learn more, visit TravelToRestore.com. TravelToRestore.com was created by Sylvia Petro, the creator of LLAFIT and Sylvia Petro & Travel Advisors travel agency. The agency specializes in wellness, luxury, solo, and group travel. Coming from a twenty-year-long fitness and wellness background, Sylvia Petro & Advisors puts thoughtful wellness, solo, group, and luxury travel at the forefront of offerings. All four categories offer the option to renew, relax, regroup, and/or reenergize–by yourself, as a couple, or with friends and family. Leave the planning and booking to Sylvia Petro & Advisors, so you can fully immerse yourself in rejuvenation, relaxation, and adventure. 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Things Other Women Say & Do to Fit Women - I was five years into my fitness journey when I first noticed the below-listed negative behaviors and comments from other women. And I was taken aback by the potency of what felt like anger, hatred, or frustration emanating from their eyes and ejecting from their mouths. My first experience of this came from a teacher whom I respected, viewed as an intellectual, and thought was mentally far above the petty insecurities that evoke the above-described hallmarks of a woman incensed by another woman’s success. I was a new, young mom, and she was middle-aged and a mother herself. The year prior, we had many enriching conversations, and she was my favorite teacher. But, after vowing to improve my life and health and ultimately getting into shape, she started making backhanded comments about my appearance. While not succeeding in making me feel bad about my body, she succeeded in showing me the kind of woman I wouldn’t like to become: bitter, insecure, and doing nothing about it. Prior to adopting a healthy lifestyle, I had severe depression, and like many, I was lazy and out of shape. Pregnancy woke me up, and I realized I had to be healthier and more mindful about my lifestyle. Knowing my history of depression and having finally overcome it, my teacher ignored or overlooked the positive changes I made as a new, young mom, and instead gave in to her insecurities and insulted my achievements and appearance any chance she got. Needless to say, I ended our once enjoyable conversations. But insults about my new healthy lifestyle didn’t end with her. Over time, I was increasingly on the receiving end of women ejecting unwarranted insults on me about my body. Sadly, I eventually found myself scrutinizing my figure (which is what they wanted). But that self-scrutiny did not last. Education and principles saved me then and still save me now from focusing on the superficial aspects of reaching fitness goals. Regular exercise and education on nutrition diminished my depression. So while women focused on my looks, I focused on the health of my brain, and I wasn’t about to go back to the depressed girl I once was by reversing my lifestyle changes. This is why my primary goal has always been lifelong health and fitness. To meet that goal, all obstacles must be overcome, including those who might try to psych me out along the way. As years passed and my love of wellness became interwoven into who I am, I stopped caring about reactions from my many female critics (because they haven’t gone away). My teacher’s sudden personality change toward me was surprising and, frankly, disappointing, but now I know it’s far too common, if not expected, among women in the unrelenting battle of body comparisons waged against each other. As derisive behaviors and comments kept coming my way from random women, co-workers, and even family members, I noticed a predictable pattern. If you’re a fit woman reading this, you can expect to experience the same below-listed negative patterns of behavior from other women—women who feel personally affronted and challenged by your success. They hope, consciously or subconsciously, to tear you down and make you like them: those who give up, give in, and/or don’t take action in an area everyone wishes to master but few do: mind, body, fitness, and health. I call the disparaging comments from these women “regurgitations” because they simply can’t control the rude, involuntary eruptions that sprout from their mouths when they see you, and it’s learned behavior, repeated across generations of women. Negative Behaviors Seeking Faults This is when a woman’s roving eye scans your entire body seeking fault: some blemish or imperfection that will knock your appearance down a peg (in her eyes). She’ll pick a specific area or areas of your body and not hesitate to tell you how unattractive she thinks it is—as if you asked her opinion. This is just an effort to make you feel insecure because she’s insecure around you. These women seem to think all fit women are arrogant, vain, and need to be knocked off their pedestals. They’re wrong. We know we’re not perfect. We just work to be better than average. Simply put, this is a woman who seeks to point out the flaws in others in hopes that others won’t see her (obvious) flaws. Modeling Yeah, I know it’s weird: women model for each other. Strange, but plain-old fact. Women who have a particular obsession with the superficial and fancy themselves as hot, sexy—choose your label—often feel the urge to declare their place as beauty queens of every space they’re in. They do this by always being curiously in your line of sight, sauntering around, often when there’s plenty of room for them to walk behind you, away from you, or anywhere else. These “models” are usually what I call “mantelpieces”: pretty faces, but often with an average body or the old-world ideal: a girlish, prepubescent-skinny, shapeless build. A recent superhero miscasting comes to mind – I agree with Cameron. The pretty faces of these women may get the adoration of many, and as a result, they believe every inch of their body is perfect. Really, oftentimes, these women do not have above-average bodies. Maybe due to the praise they’ve received over their lifetimes because of their faces, they fail to see the need to improve the other 90% of themselves from the neck down. When one of these women see another who has worked for her physique, they feel threatened, often because she lacks the discipline to do the same on her own. Their modeling is a feeble silent challenge. Being so accustomed to being the most beautiful creature in every room, she does all she knows how to do in an attempt to remain queen of her immediate space by modelling: getting in your way, hoping you’ll see just how magnificently beautiful she is — at least in her mind. A perk of being a woman with a hard-earned physique and the self-discipline that requires, is we’re not easily made jealous. We know how much work it takes to get where we are, how little effort it takes to be standard or skinny like the type of woman described above, and we know which we prefer. Speaking of the “mantelpieces,” a pretty face is a small percentage of one’s whole self. Women like the above, the models, often fail to consider the whole picture, not just aesthetically, but in various areas of life: it’s not all about aesthetics. It takes a certain personality, discipline, planning, and knowledge to reach high health and fitness goals. A woman who is secure and mature enough in herself to not so desperately seek attention for her physical appearance is one who should be modeled after. Competing Where They Don’t Compare Usually a fitness newbie with an inflated sense of their physical abilities falls into this type of behavior. Sadly for them, it’s always an epic failure when chanced against an experienced athlete. This typically takes place at a gym. Here’s the scene: a woman who’s been exercising for a month or so believes she is suddenly strong and tough. She likely walks around with graphic tees that say something about working out, like, “I ♡ dumbbells” or “Little Tough Guy.” You know that type. She believes she’s super-fit because she’s managed to work out consistently for more than one month. But, more than likely, in order to make any real progress, her boyfriend has to babysit her at the weight rack and hold her hand through easy exercises, like bicep curls. Or, because of her lack of self-motivation and self-discipline, she requires the motivation and reassurance of group exercise. With her newly inflated ego, she thinks she can go head-to-head with an experienced female athlete. She’ll attempt to mimic the same exercises at the same intensity as the athlete. But this goes awry from the onset, when she discovers, after embarrassing failure, that she either can’t do even one rep of the exercise, can’t achieve proper form, or lacks the adequate conditioning to perform at the level of the seasoned athlete. This insecure creature clearly doesn’t know (or appreciate) that it takes time and dedication to achieve a certain level of fitness and master a given physical skill. A more experienced person wouldn’t follow someone else’s routine on a whim. They know the logic and science behind individualized training, which is based on fitness level, experience, and goals. Keep trying, newbie. The Lost Puppy This is the woman who follows you around the gym with puppy-dog eyes, lost and clueless as of what to do—so she’ll follow you since you’re ostensibly fit. While this is not offensive or rude like the previous non-verbal actions I’ve described, it’s annoying as hell. Her wide eyes and constant dawdling around you is her way of saying, “help me, help me. I want to be like you.” These women are irritating simply because they’re lost in the first place. I mean, take a moment to read a book or something before paying for a gym membership. This person not only wastes money, but wastes their own time — while trying to waste another woman’s time to boot. The key to success isn’t following random people around and hoping they’ll stop what they’re doing to rescue an ignorant gym-goer. These women have every opportunity to get informed as anyone else does. I have helped one or two of these women in the past. But, their strategies to reach fitness goals: joining a gym with no game plan and following around random people they want to look like, should have told me that they weren’t dedicated to sticking to anything I showed them. Additionally, these irritating interlopers often eventually have wishy-washy fits of negative regurgitations like the rest. It’s best to leave them roaming aimlessly than allow them to waste your time. Let some guy rescue them in their ignorance, as that’s so often the end result. Negative Comments Reveling in a Fantasy that Fit Women are Airheads Our bodies are the only real possession we have in life; therefore, it’s a no-brainer to take care of it. However, when you manage to be of that class of people who actually achieve good health and fitness and keep it up, you often become a source of hatred, particularly if you’re a woman among other women. One of the things these women do in rebellion is act as if you’re stupid. Come on, we all know people love believing fit people are idiots. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had a woman so eager to see this belief fulfilled that she refused to fully listen to things I said. Instead, she cut me off, either assuming she knew what I was going to say and it was inept, or that my statement needed to be completed by her for it to be correct. These women also tend to state the obvious when speaking to you or they overexplain things, hoping to present themselves as the “smart one.” In reality, stating the obvious simply means you have nothing to add. Unlike those who see the achievement of health and fitness as an impossibility or a time-consuming burden, women who manage to maintain good health for years know how to keep a balance. It’s all about education. Yes, education. Being that we’re all organic with body systems that require regular maintenance, anyone with a modicum of intelligence should prioritize health and fitness. If you ask me, those who don’t are themselves stupid. People who maintain balance in health, fitness, and life inform themselves about how to reach and maintain their goals; unlike those who give in to the primal urge to compete with others. These unnecessarily abrasive women are not so combative when another woman’s hobby is, say, scrapbooking or drinking wine and gossiping about reality TV. Minimizing – Downplaying Your Hard Work & Dedication Here’s...
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